12 Dating Habits We Need To Bring Back
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12 Dating Habits We Need To Bring Back

We deserve more than what we've settled for.

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12 Dating Habits We Need To Bring Back
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1. Calling a date a date instead of "hanging out."

Call it what it is. If it's a date, it's a date. If it isn't, it isn't. Be clear.


2. Making plans instead of just "Netflix and chilling."

Take her to dinner instead of the bedroom.


3. Writing actual letters.

Texting is easy. Writing an actual letter on paper takes a little more time. This is something we've stopped doing that we need to bring back.


4. Buying flowers for the lady in your life.

Why have we stopped doing this?


5. Calling and having an actual conversation rather than constantly texting.

And on that note, calling at an appropriate time. If he's calling at 3 a.m., it probably isn't for a friendly chat.


6. Opening the door for her.

I don't care what they say, chivalry will never go out of style.


7. Having a relationship outside of social media.

If you only snapchat and text, there's a problem. There needs to be face-to-face communication.


8. Introducing the person you're dating to your parents.

If you are ashamed or embarrassed for your parents to meet the person you're dating, that probably isn't a good sign.


9. Putting a label on the relationship.

You need to know where you stand -- are you friends, boyfriend and girlfriend, or what? Don't keep someone guessing. Be upfront with them.


10. Respecting each other.

Ladies, you must respect the man you're dating. He must also respect you. If there's no respect, there's no relationship.


11. Knowing your worth.

Know that you should never feel pressured into doing something you're not ready for or comfortable with. Know how to say no.


12. Allowing time for a real relationship to form.

Whether it is being friends first or going on a second date even after an awkward first date, it is important to give yourselves time to grow a solid relationship. We often ruin things because of our impatience.

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