On February 15, 2015, the most shallow meme ever hit the internet: Take Her Swimming On The First Date. It made makeup seem like a way for women to deceive men. Obviously, a lot has changed on the internet since 2015, and men have come up with their very own deceptive scheme: leading girls on and then attempting to take advantage of them. So here are 11 reasons why you should take him up on swimming the first date.
1. He asked you to Netflix and chill.
If he initially asks you on a "date" but insists on it being in the comforts of his own home, be careful. This effortless joke of a "date" could end poorly.
2. He will ask about your sexual experiences in past relationships.
And he will want details. Be cautious of jumping to conclusions because he could just be curious. Most of the time, a player will be asking you for very personal and uncomfortable sexual details.
3. If his words seem insincere...
Then you may be on a date with a player. It is important to not fall into his trap so beware of him saying what you want to hear. It is tricky to tell if he is playing you so be cautious of rejecting a good guy.
4. He will be uncomfortably touchy.
He may claim that he is just clumsy or that the touching is "an accident" but that is just an excuse to touch you without asking. Keep in mind that it can truly be an accident when deciding whether or not he is playing you.
5. He avoids asking you questions.
And does not seem to be wanting to get to know you. Players tend to show no interest in your life despite all of their flirting but be cautious because some guys are just shy.
6. He takes things really, uncomfortably quickly.
If you met this guy an hour ago and he starts saying he wants to have your children, that is a major red flag.
7. He seems very insensitive and inconsiderate.
Players want to prove that they have game, and they do not care if it hurts your feelings. If he makes a major mistake, like texting your friend, and does not show any remorse, then he is 100 percent a player.
8. He wants you to pity him.
If he is a clearly confident guy then this is a major red flag. He will say things like, "I am so ugly. No girls will date me," to guilt you into meeting up with him. Keep in mind that he could just have low self-esteem, but most players do not.
9. There are rumors that he will use you.
You can not always expect rumors to be true, but be wary because players get around a lot, and you may find out too late.
10. He makes you beg for compliments.
He will not compliment you unless you beg. He will not compliment you because he wants to and that will be pretty obvious. If you find yourself saying, "I am so ugly" to get complimented by him, then he may just be a player.
11. He will constantly talk about his own sexual experiences.
Players love to brag about being with lots of girls and will not shy away from sharing them with you. This is by far the stupidest thing that players do, which makes it easier for us girls to avoid them.
So will you take him swimming on the first date?