Here are a few things that I think many people can agree on that they look forward to when coming home from college!
5. No More Communal Showers
7. A Break From All Of The Schoolwork
9. A Car To Drive In
10. Sleeping In Your Real Bed
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When I was younger I resented you, I hated every ounce of you, and I used to question why God would give me a parent like you. Not now. Now I see the beauty and the blessings behind having an addict for a parent. If you're reading this, it isn't meant to hurt you, but rather to thank you.
Thank you for choosing your addiction over me.
Throughout my life, you have always chosen the addiction over my programs, my swim meets or even a simple movie night. You joke about it now or act as if I never questioned if you would wake up the next morning from your pill and alcohol-induced sleep, but I thank you for this. I thank you because I gained a relationship with God. The amount of time I spent praying for you strengthened our relationship in ways I could never explain.
Thank you for giving me a stronger bond with our family.
The amount of hurt and disappointment our family has gone through has brought us closer together. I have a relationship with Nanny and Pop that would never be as strong as it is today if you had been in the picture from day one. That in itself is a blessing.
Thank you for showing me how to love.
From your absence, I have learned how to love unconditionally. I want you to know that even though you weren't here, I love you most of all. No matter the amount of heartbreak, tears, and pain I've felt, you will always be my greatest love.
Thank you for making me strong.
Thank you for leaving and for showing me how to be independent. From you, I have learned that I do not need anyone else to prove to me that I am worthy of being loved. From you, I have learned that life is always hard, but you shouldn't give into the things that make you feel good for a short while, but should search for the real happiness in life.
Most of all, thank you for showing me how to turn my hurt into motivation.
I have learned that the cycle of addiction is not something that will continue into my life. You have hurt me more than anyone, but through that hurt, I have pushed myself to become the best version of myself.
Thank you for choosing the addiction over me because you've made me stronger, wiser, and loving than I ever could've been before.
Have you ever just had such a crappy day that you find yourself lying in bed daydreaming about what your perfect day would be like? No limitations, no pain, no frustrations. Just whatever you want.
Well, I have. Here is a look at what my perfect day would contain.
I know, I know. The first thing on my list is something that could absolutely never happen, at least in my lifetime. But hear me out.
I want to travel, but any form of transportation makes me sick. Cars, boats, planes, trains, you name it I end getting sick. So if I could teleport than I wouldn't have to deal with it. Plus I wouldn't have to pay for gas or airfare. It's a win-win.
2. My Mom
It wouldn't be a perfect day if my mom wasn't along for the ride. Who else would I have fun with and then rub it in my brothers face later?
Just kidding, he would come too.
It would not be a prefect day if it didn't involve food. And if it was free it would be even better.
I have been dying to go back to London, and if it was my perfect day I would definitely take a trip over the pond!
5. Meet the StarsGiphy
If it was going to be my perfect day, I would meet some celebrities. Let me scream, and jump, and totally fangirl in front of Emma Watson, Tom Hiddleston, Chris Hemsworth, Zac Efron, and Robert Downey Jr. just to name a few.
6. Meet Fictional CharactersGiphy
Earlier I said no limitations, so that means I get to meet fictional characters such as the Mikaelson family, the Golden Trio, Sirius Black, the Avengers, the Joker (he wouldn't kill me), and Hannibal Lecter (he also wouldn't kill me) to name a few.
7. Disney WorldGiphy
Bring on the magic! I want to go to Disney World and not have to wait in any lines. That would be a perfect day.
8. Learn a New Language
If I could learn how to speak French or German in a day that would be amazing.
9. Queen ConcertGiphy
If I could close out the day by traveling back in time to see a Queen concert with Freddie Mercury back on stage that would be the perfect end to the perfect day.
If everyone that I love was completely happy, with no stresses holding them down, for just one day that would definitely be a part of my perfect day.